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7 Build-Your-Own Dinners for Picky Family Nights

Taco bars, rice bowls, mini pizzas, baked potato bars, pasta with two sauces, wraps and noodle bowls: everyone builds their own plate.

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A build-your-own bowl with greens, edamame, carrots, cabbage and pineapple
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When one child wants plain pasta, another hates anything green and the adults want flavor, a build-your-own dinner keeps the peace. You cook once; everyone chooses what goes on their plate.

Tips that help picky eaters

  • Serve components separately rather than mixed together.
  • Include at least one familiar "safe" food on the table.
  • Let children help set out the toppings; people are more likely to eat what they helped make.
  • Offer sauces on the side.
  1. Taco bar

    • Seasoned beef or chicken
    • Shells and soft tortillas
    • Cheese, lettuce, tomatoes, beans
    • Mild salsa and sour cream

    Set everything out in bowls and let everyone assemble their own.

    Full recipe

  2. Rice bowl bar

    • Rice
    • Chicken or tofu
    • Cucumber, carrots, corn, edamame
    • Two sauces, one mild

    A great use for Sunday prep.

    Full recipe

  3. Mini pizza night

    • Naan, pita or English muffins
    • Pizza sauce
    • Shredded mozzarella
    • Pepperoni, peppers, olives, pineapple

    Everyone tops their own, then bake at 425°F for 8 to 10 minutes.

    Full recipe

  4. Baked potato bar

    • Baked potatoes
    • Butter, cheese, sour cream
    • Bacon bits, broccoli, chili, green onions

    Microwave or oven-bake the potatoes and set out the toppings.

  5. Pasta with two sauces

    • 1 pound pasta
    • Butter and Parmesan
    • Marinara
    • Meatballs or grilled chicken on the side

    Cook the pasta plain and let everyone choose a sauce.

    Full recipe

  6. Wrap and sandwich bar

    • Tortillas and bread
    • Deli meats and cheeses
    • Lettuce, tomato, cucumber
    • Sauces and spreads

    Follow the layering order for sandwiches that do not go soggy.

    Full recipe

  7. Noodle bowls

    • Egg noodles or spaghetti
    • Shredded chicken
    • Steamed vegetables
    • Soy sauce, peanut sauce or butter

    Toss noodles simply and serve the rest on the side.

    Full recipe

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